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Pregnant and Considering Adoption in Nebraska? You Can Give Your Baby a Beautiful Life

If you’re pregnant and considering adoption in Nebraska, you’re not alone in feeling overwhelmed by this decision. You might be wondering if adoption is the right choice, what it actually involves, or whether you’ll regret it later. These questions matter, and they deserve honest answers.

Adoption is a loving choice that gives your baby a stable home with parents who are ready—emotionally and financially—while allowing you to maintain a connection through open adoption if you choose. It’s completely free for you, you get to choose your baby’s family, and you receive support throughout pregnancy and beyond.

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This guide will walk you through exactly how adoption works in Nebraska, what happens to your baby after placement, and what kind of support you can expect if you choose this path.

I’m Pregnant and Considering Adoption in Nebraska

When you’re pregnant and thinking about adoption, understanding why thousands of women choose this option can help you feel more confident about your decision.

Here’s what makes adoption different from other options:

Adoption is completely free for you. You don’t pay anything. In fact, you can receive financial assistance with pregnancy-related expenses like rent, groceries, medical costs, and transportation.

You choose your baby’s adoptive family. You’re not handing your baby to strangers chosen by an agency. You review family profiles, select the family that feels right to you, and can even meet them before making your final decision.

Open adoption allows ongoing connection. Unlike adoptions decades ago where birth mothers never heard from their children again, most adoptions today include some level of contact—photos, updates, visits, or whatever arrangement you and the family agree on.

You receive support throughout the process. From the moment you reach out to an adoption professional, you have access to free counseling, help creating your adoption plan, legal representation, and emotional support after placement.

How the Adoption Process Works in Nebraska—Step by Step

If you’re pregnant and considering adoption but don’t know where to start, here’s what the process actually looks like:

Step 1: Reach out to an adoption agency.

Contact a licensed adoption agency like American Adoptions that works in Nebraska. They’ll answer your questions, explain what support is available, and help you understand your options. This conversation is free and doesn’t commit you to anything.

Step 2: Create your adoption plan.

You’ll work with an adoption counselor to decide what you want for your baby and yourself. This includes what type of family you’re looking for, how much contact you want after adoption (open, semi-open, or closed), what financial support you need during pregnancy, and who you want at the hospital during delivery.

Step 3: Choose a family for your baby.

Your adoption specialist will show you profiles of families who have been screened, background-checked, and approved to adopt. You choose the family. If the first family doesn’t feel right, you can look at more profiles until you find the match that feels perfect.

Step 4: Receive financial and emotional support.

Once you’ve chosen a family and formalized your adoption plan, you’ll start receiving the financial assistance you need. This can include help with rent, utilities, groceries, medical costs, maternity clothes, and transportation. You’ll also have access to free counseling throughout your pregnancy.

Step 5: Birth and hospital planning.

You decide everything about your hospital experience—who’s in the delivery room, whether the adoptive family is at the hospital, how much time you want with the baby after birth, and whether you want the adoptive parents to be involved in feeding or caring for the baby while you’re there. Your adoption specialist coordinates with hospital staff to make sure your wishes are respected.

Step 6: Post-adoption life and ongoing support.

After placement, you continue to receive counseling and support as you navigate the emotions of adoption. If you’ve chosen open adoption, you’ll start receiving updates, photos, and possibly visits according to your agreement with the adoptive family.

Learn more about how adoption works from start to finish.

How Do I Find an Adoptive Family for My Baby in Nebraska?

One of the biggest misconceptions about adoption is that someone else decides where your baby goes. That’s not how it works. You choose the family.

Here’s how the process works:

When you create your adoption plan with your adoption counselor, you’ll describe what you’re looking for in a family. This might include things like:

Your adoption specialist will then show you profiles of families that match your preferences. These profiles include photos, letters to expectant mothers, information about their lives, their parenting philosophy, and what they can offer a child.

You can meet families before making your decision. Many birth mothers talk to potential families on the phone or video chat, and some meet in person. You choose the family that feels right to you—no one else makes this decision.

If you don’t feel a connection with the first family you meet, you can look at other profiles. This is your choice, and you should feel completely comfortable with the family you select.

What Happens to My Baby After Adoption?

If you’re worried about never seeing your baby again or not knowing if they’re okay, open adoption can address those concerns.

Open adoption means you maintain some level of contact with your child and their adoptive family after placement. The specific arrangement is up to you and the family to decide together, and it can include:

Open adoption benefits both you and your child. You get to see your child growing up happy and healthy, which can bring peace during a difficult time. Your child gets to know their birth family and understand their story, which research shows helps with identity development and self-esteem.

The level of openness is flexible and can change over time as everyone’s needs change. Some birth mothers want frequent contact, others prefer less. Your adoption agency can help you find a family that shares your preferences for contact.

Nebraska law allows for legally enforceable post-adoption contact agreements under certain circumstances, meaning if the adoptive family agrees to a certain level of contact, that agreement can be included in the final adoption decree.

Learn more about what open adoption is and how it works.

Can I Choose Adoption After Birth?

Yes. You don’t have to make your final decision until after your baby is born.

Many women who are pregnant and thinking about adoption need time after birth to be sure. Nebraska law protects this by not allowing you to sign adoption consent until at least 48 hours after your baby is born. This gives you time to hold your baby, think about your decision, and make sure adoption is right for you.

You can even take your baby home from the hospital and choose adoption days or weeks later if you need more time to decide. Some women know immediately that adoption is the right choice. Others need more time, and that’s okay.

Your adoption agency will support you regardless of how long you need to make your final decision. If you decide to parent instead, you won’t owe anyone money back for the support you received during pregnancy.

Under Nebraska law, once you sign consent to adoption, you have an additional 48 hours to change your mind for any reason. After that 48-hour period, consent can only be withdrawn if you can prove it was obtained through fraud or duress.

Do I Have to Tell the Birth Father About the Adoption in Nebraska?

Nebraska law requires that birth fathers be notified about adoption plans, but whether the father’s consent is required depends on his level of involvement and his actions after being notified.

Here’s how it works:

If you’re married to the baby’s father, his consent is required unless he has abandoned you or the child, failed to provide support, or otherwise lost his parental rights.

If you’re not married to the father, the situation depends on whether he takes legal action:

The father must be notified about the adoption. If he wants to parent the child, he must file a claim to paternity with the Nebraska Biological Father Registry within 5 business days of either being notified of the adoption plan or the baby’s birth—whichever comes later.

If he files that claim, he then has 30 days to file a petition in county court for adjudication of paternity and right to custody. If he doesn’t file within these timeframes, his consent is not required and his parental rights are not recognized.

If the father is unknown, unsupportive, abusive, or absent, your adoption agency will connect you with an experienced adoption attorney who can help you navigate the legal requirements. The adoptive family pays for your legal representation—you don’t pay anything.

Your attorney can help if:

Every situation is different, and Nebraska courts consider many factors when determining whether a father’s consent is required. An experienced adoption attorney can evaluate your specific circumstances and advise you on the best path forward.

Learn more about birth father rights in Nebraska adoptions.

What You Can Expect from Life After Adoption as a Birth Mother

Choosing adoption doesn’t mean your relationship with this decision ends at placement. Understanding what life after adoption looks like can help you feel more prepared.

Grief is normal. Even when adoption is the right choice, you will grieve. You’re experiencing real loss—the loss of raising this child, the loss of everyday moments, the loss of what could have been. Grieving doesn’t mean you made the wrong choice. It means you love your child.

Healing takes time. Some days will be harder than others. Holidays, your child’s birthday, and Mother’s Day can be especially difficult. But over time, many birth mothers find that the pain becomes less sharp and they’re able to focus on the positive impact their decision had on their child’s life.

Support is available. You don’t have to navigate this alone. Resources include:

Many birth mothers say that seeing their child thriving—through photos, updates, or visits—brings them comfort and peace. Open adoption allows you to witness the life you gave your child, which can help with healing.

Find support resources for life after adoption.

Will I Get Support If I Choose Adoption?

Yes. From the moment you reach out to an adoption professional until long after placement, you receive comprehensive support at no cost to you.

Financial support during pregnancy:

Nebraska law allows you to receive help with pregnancy-related expenses, including:

Learn about financial assistance available during pregnancy.

24/7 counseling and emotional support:

You’ll have access to experienced adoption counselors who understand what you’re going through. They’re available anytime you need to talk, whether you’re feeling confident about your decision or struggling with doubt.

Help finding the perfect family:

Your adoption specialist will guide you through reviewing family profiles and help you identify families that match what you’re looking for. They’ll facilitate meetings, conversations, and any contact you want with potential families.

Hospital planning and advocacy:

Your adoption team will work with hospital staff to make sure your wishes are respected. They’ll be available during labor and delivery if you want them there, and they’ll handle any difficult conversations so you can focus on your baby.

Post-adoption counseling and support:

Support doesn’t end at placement. You’ll continue to have access to counseling, support groups, and resources as you navigate life after adoption.

Learn How You Can Change Your and Your Baby’s Life

Choosing adoption is one of the hardest decisions you’ll ever make, but it’s also one of the most loving. You’re not giving up—you’re giving your child everything you want for them but can’t provide right now.

If you’re pregnant and considering adoption in Nebraska, reach out to an adoption professional who can answer your specific questions and help you understand what’s possible. This conversation is free, confidential, and doesn’t obligate you to anything.