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I’m Pregnant with No Support from the Father in Massachusetts – Can I Choose Adoption?

Finding out you’re pregnant when the father isn’t involved—whether he’s ignoring you, you don’t know who he is, or he’s simply not in the picture—can leave you feeling isolated and overwhelmed.

You might be wondering if adoption is even possible without his support. The answer is yes. In Massachusetts, you have the right to make decisions about your pregnancy and your baby’s future, including choosing adoption. With help from an experienced adoption professional, you can create a plan that works for you—regardless of the father’s involvement.

Get free support now to talk through your options and understand what’s available to you in Massachusetts.

Pregnant With No Support From the Father in Massachusetts? You’re Not Alone

Facing an unplanned pregnancy without the father’s support is more common than you might think. Whether he’s disappeared, doesn’t want to be involved, or you’re not in contact with him, you’re not the first person to navigate this situation—and you don’t have to figure it out alone.

Right now, you might be feeling:

All of these feelings are valid. This is a difficult situation, and it’s okay to acknowledge that.

What matters now is knowing you have choices—and that there are people ready to help you make the decision that’s right for you and your baby.

What Are My Options If I’m Pregnant and Alone?

When you’re pregnant with no support from the father, you have three main paths forward:

Parenting: You can raise your child on your own. Massachusetts has programs that provide financial assistance, healthcare, childcare support, and other resources for single parents. While parenting solo is challenging, many women find it deeply rewarding with the right support system in place.

Abortion: Abortion is legal in Massachusetts throughout pregnancy. After 24 weeks, abortion remains available when necessary to preserve your life or health, including your mental health. You can access abortion services through healthcare providers across the state without needing anyone else’s permission or involvement.

Adoption: You can make an adoption plan that gives your baby a stable, loving family while maintaining whatever level of contact feels right for you. In most situations, you can move forward with adoption even if the father is absent or uninvolved.

None of these options is inherently better or worse—the right choice depends on your circumstances, your values, and what feels manageable for your life right now.

Can I Choose Adoption Without the Father’s Involvement in Massachusetts?

In most cases, yes. Massachusetts law requires consent from the mother for adoption to proceed. Under Massachusetts law, if your child was born out of wedlock and not previously adopted, only your consent is required—as long as no one has legally established paternity.

Here’s what that means practically:

If the father hasn’t signed an acknowledgment of paternity, isn’t listed on the birth certificate, and no court has established his paternity, you can generally proceed with adoption based on your consent alone.

However, Massachusetts law does require adoption agencies to make reasonable efforts to identify and notify the father. If you voluntarily provide information about the father, the adoption agency will attempt to notify him. This doesn’t mean he has veto power over your decision—it means he has the right to be informed about the adoption proceedings.

An experienced adoption attorney can help you understand how these laws apply to your specific situation and what steps need to be taken. When you work with an agency like American Adoptions, they’ll connect you with a qualified Massachusetts adoption attorney who can guide you through the legal process.

How Does Adoption Work If I Don’t Know Who the Father Is?

If you genuinely don’t know who the father is—or if you know but don’t have current contact information—adoption can still move forward.

In Massachusetts, if you receive a child for adoption purposes and no one has acknowledged or been adjudicated as the father, the adoption agency will request that you voluntarily provide a sworn written statement identifying the father and his last known address. This statement is used solely to attempt notification.

If you truly don’t know who the father is, you would indicate that in your statement. The adoption can proceed based on your consent alone, though the process may require additional legal steps to ensure all requirements are met.

Your adoption attorney will help you navigate these requirements and make sure everything is handled correctly.

Can I Still Choose Adoption If the Father Disagrees?

This is more complicated. If the father has established legal paternity—either by signing an acknowledgment of paternity, being listed on the birth certificate, or through a court judgment—his consent may be required for adoption to proceed.

However, “required” doesn’t always mean “necessary.” Massachusetts courts can terminate parental rights if a parent:

If the father is actively opposing adoption but hasn’t been involved in your pregnancy, hasn’t provided financial or emotional support, or can’t be found, your adoption attorney may be able to demonstrate to the court that his consent should not be required.

These cases require careful legal work, but they can and do succeed. The key is working with professionals who understand how to navigate contested adoptions in Massachusetts.

What Support Is Available for Single Pregnant Women in Massachusetts?

Whether you’re still deciding what to do or you’ve already chosen a path, Massachusetts offers several support programs for pregnant women:

Healthcare Coverage:

Financial Assistance:

Food Assistance:

Housing Support:

Energy Assistance:

General Support:

These programs can provide critical support whether you’re planning to parent or making an adoption plan. Many pregnant women continue receiving these benefits throughout their pregnancy and postpartum period.

Adoption Agencies in Massachusetts

If you’re considering adoption, working with a licensed agency is required in Massachusetts. Here are several agencies that can help:

American Adoptions – National agency with 24/7 support, offices serving Massachusetts families. American Adoptions helps you create your adoption plan, choose the adoptive family, and receive financial assistance for pregnancy expenses.

Adoptions With Love (Newton) – Licensed non-profit serving Massachusetts since 1986

Ascentria Care Alliance (Worcester) – Full-service adoption agency with faith-based roots

Bethany Christian Services (Franklin) – National Christian agency with Massachusetts location

These agencies can explain your options, connect you with resources, and guide you through every step of the adoption process if you choose that path.

Is Adoption the Right Path for Me and My Baby?

Only you can answer that question. But understanding what adoption offers might help you think through whether it aligns with what you want for yourself and your baby.

When you choose adoption, you’re making a plan that:

Adoption doesn’t mean disappearing from your child’s life forever. Modern adoption includes contact that allows you to watch your child grow while the adoptive parents handle the day-to-day responsibilities of raising them.

How to Cope Emotionally With an Unsupported Pregnancy

Being pregnant without the father’s support is emotionally exhausting. Here are some ways to find support and take care of yourself:

Lean on your support network:

Find professional support:

Connect with online communities:

Pregnancy resource centers across Massachusetts offer free pregnancy tests, ultrasounds, and counseling:

Note: Pregnancy resource centers are private, faith-based organizations that don’t provide abortion services or referrals. If you’re considering all your options, you may want to connect with multiple types of organizations to get comprehensive information.

Next Steps: Who to Call, Where to Go, and How to Get Clarity

You don’t have to have everything figured out right now. The most important thing is taking one step at a time.

If you’re still exploring your options:

If you’re leaning toward adoption:

If you’re considering parenting:

If you’re considering abortion:

Whatever you decide, you deserve support through this process. You’re facing a difficult situation with courage, and that matters—regardless of which path you choose.

Talk to someone now who understands what you’re going through. American Adoptions provides free, confidential counseling 24/7, whether you’re certain about adoption or still figuring out what feels right.

You’re stronger than you know. And you don’t have to do this alone.