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I’m Pregnant and Don’t Want to Be a Mom: Adoption vs. Abortion in Arkansas

I’m Pregnant but Don’t Want to Be a Mom – What Can I Do?

If you’re pregnant but don’t want to be a mom, that feeling is valid. You don’t have to apologize for it or justify it to anyone. Not every woman feels ready or called to motherhood, and recognizing that about yourself takes self-awareness and honesty.

You have two main options to explore: abortion and adoption. In Arkansas, abortion access is extremely limited due to state law. Adoption, however, is fully available and provides comprehensive support throughout pregnancy and beyond.

Both paths deserve honest consideration. The right choice depends on your specific circumstances, timeline, and what feels most aligned with your values and situation.

Abortion vs. Adoption in Arkansas: Comparing Your Options

Understanding the practical differences between adoption vs abortion helps you make an informed decision.

Abortion in Arkansas:

Arkansas currently bans all abortions except when necessary to save the pregnant person’s life in a medical emergency. There are no exceptions for rape, incest, or fetal abnormalities. This means abortion is not legally available in Arkansas for most circumstances.

Many Arkansas residents travel to neighboring states where abortion remains legal. However, this requires resources for travel, lodging, time off work, and the procedure itself. If you’re deciding between abortion or adoption, understanding both options fully can help clarify your choice.

Adoption in Arkansas:

Adoption is legal at any point during your pregnancy or after birth. Unlike abortion, there are no gestational limits or time restrictions. You can choose adoption whether you’re in your first trimester, third trimester, or have already given birth.

With adoption, you receive financial assistance for pregnancy-related expenses, free counseling, and the ability to choose who will adopt your baby. You maintain control over the level of future contact through open adoption arrangements.

Key differences:

Abortion ends the pregnancy. Adoption allows someone else to raise your baby. Abortion has strict legal and time limitations in Arkansas. Adoption has no such restrictions. Abortion typically requires out-of-state travel from Arkansas. Adoption services are available locally. Abortion involves immediate costs. Adoption provides financial support for pregnancy expenses.

Can’t Get Abortion but Don’t Want to Be a Mother? You Have Choices

If you’re pregnant and I don’t want it, but abortion isn’t accessible to you, adoption offers a path forward that doesn’t require you to become a parent.

Adoption is available regardless of timing:

Unlike abortion’s gestational limits, adoption has no deadline. You can make an adoption plan in your first trimester, your third trimester, or even after delivery. This means you don’t have to rush into a decision you’re not ready to make.

Take the time you need to think this through. If you’re early in pregnancy and still processing your options, you have weeks or months to decide. If you’re further along and just realized adoption is possible, it’s not too late. With adoption, the timeline works for you, not against you.

You’re not on a countdown. You can take your time deciding what feels right.

You don’t have to parent just because you gave birth:

Some women assume that if they can’t access abortion, they’re automatically committed to raising a child. That’s not true. Considering adoption for your baby is a valid, loving choice that recognizes you’re not ready or willing to be a mother.

Adoption acknowledges that you want your baby to have a good life with parents who are prepared to provide it. That’s not failure. That’s making a difficult decision with your child’s best interests in mind.

Can I Give Up My Baby for Adoption Right After Birth?

Yes. You can absolutely place your baby for adoption immediately after birth. Many women don’t realize this is an option or worry it’s “too late” once they’ve delivered.

How last-minute adoption works:

By working with a national adoption agency, you can connect with families who are already approved, waiting, and ready to welcome a baby immediately. These families have completed home studies, background checks, and are prepared to travel to Arkansas on short notice.

Even if you haven’t made any plans during pregnancy, you can still choose adoption after birth. The agency will work quickly to match you with an appropriate family and handle all legal paperwork.

You’re not trapped in a decision to parent just because you didn’t plan ahead.

You Don’t Want to Be a Mom – Adoption Lets You Choose a Better Future

If you’re pregnant but don’t want to be a mom, adoption allows you to give your baby the family and future you want them to have without becoming a parent yourself.

Support available through adoption:

This isn’t settling because you couldn’t access abortion. This is actively choosing what you believe is best for your child.

What Happens When You Choose Adoption in Arkansas?

Understanding the adoption process helps remove uncertainty about what comes next.

1. Find an adoption agency

Contact a licensed adoption agency that serves Arkansas. American Adoptions provides free, confidential consultations 24/7 to discuss your situation and answer questions.

2. Make an adoption plan

Work with an adoption specialist to outline your preferences: type of family you want, level of openness, and any specific hopes or requirements. This plan is customized entirely to your wishes.

3. Choose an adoptive family

Review family profiles and select parents who align with your values. You can meet them in person, via video call, or remain anonymous, depending on your comfort level.

4. Begin receiving financial assistance

Once matched with a family, you can receive help with pregnancy-related expenses. All assistance must be documented and court-approved but is available throughout your pregnancy.

5. Birth and placement

You decide who is present at the hospital, how much time you want with the baby, and when placement occurs. Many birth mothers spend time with their baby before placement, while others prefer immediate transfer. Your comfort matters.

6. Post-placement life

After placement, you’ll work through the legal finalization period (Arkansas has a 10-day revocation period after signing the consent). Counseling continues as long as you need it, and you’ll maintain whatever level of contact you arranged through open adoption.

Who Can I Talk to Right Now? Free, Confidential Support Is Available

If you’re thinking “I’m pregnant and I don’t want it,” talking to someone who understands and won’t judge you can help clarify your options.

American Adoptions: Available 24/7 for free, confidential counseling about adoption. You can call even if you’re still deciding and aren’t certain about adoption. Professional counseling services help you think through all your options.

Arkansas pregnancy resource centers:

Abortion access support:

A good counselor will help you think through practical considerations, emotional factors, and long-term implications without pressuring you toward any particular choice.

You Don’t Have to Do This Alone – Getting Help in Arkansas

Being pregnant but not wanting to be a mom is isolating. You might feel like you can’t talk to family or friends about these feelings. That isolation makes everything harder.

Contact us today to speak with an unplanned pregnancy counselor who can provide information about adoption, abortion access, and all your options without judgment.

Whether you need help understanding the adoption process, want to explore abortion options, or just need someone to listen as you figure out what feels right, confidential support is available now.

You don’t have to want motherhood. You don’t have to apologize for that. What you do need is accurate information, practical support, and someone who respects your right to make this decision for yourself. Whatever you decide, you deserve compassion and real help navigating this situation.